How to Survive the Broke Stage: Marriage Bootcamp

What’s up guys?! So how are we liking the blogging consistency? After a few death threats and minor limb damage, I figured I better give the people what they are asking for. I would also like to retain the use of my legs and so I am keen on…

Why You Should Wait to Have Kids….

The other day I was talking complaining to someone about how badly we wanted to travel for my birthday; but with the kids being in school/sports and blah blah blah that was fifty shades of impossible. So the person says, “aw man! No travel for your big day…

What About Her Calls To You?

What about her calls to you? Is it the way she rolls your name across her lips? The way she twists her hips? Or maybe it’s the grace with which she drops to her knees. Perhaps it’s the way she comes a running when you call? Did she…

Oh, So You’re a Writer….But What’s Your Real Job?

Or an artist, or a photographer or some other profession that doesn’t require six master’s degrees and ownership of 15 pairs of black or gray slacks and a stack of very crisp blazers. Recently, I went to an event that I found on Meetup….the…

TMI Tag- Get to know me….

I thought this would be an interesting way for you guys to get to know me a little more. I think it will be fun. Or mortifying. Enjoy! What are you currently wearing? Workout clothes that I will literally never exercise in. Ever. Have you ever been in love? Twice…

My White Friend Called Me Ghetto….

Well actually, she didn’t. But her daughter did. Black activist, calm down for a moment and roll with me  while I explain it. She and and I were chatting and she mentions that while we were talking the night before, her daughter asked her who she was speaking…

“The Hate You Give” ….My View

“The Hate You Give”…My View My husband bought a gun. And I don’t like it. Not because I don’t like guns. Nah, that answer is too simple. The real answer? Because he’s Black. A Black man in the south carrying a hand gun…

I love this…but is that a curse word?

I remember when I started this blog and I told myself that I would not, under any circumstance, compromise myself, my content or my integrity. I never want to sell out or end up in a situation that I don’t want to be in. In life we have…