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Monthly Archives: February 2017

My First Love: My Ode to Brooklyn

I am a New Yorker. Take that with a grain of salt because many would disagree and would not label me as true New Yorker. It’s true, I was not born there and I did not spend a lifetime there but once a New Yorker, always a New…

Am I Going Crazy?? Can you explain the unexplainable?

Hey my fellow visionaries and gigglers! I hope everyone had one of those heart stopping, filled with remarkable moments kind of weeks. And if not, I at least hope you had some good coffee. I wanted to hop on here and share a crazy creepy experience that happened to me…

Kids & Sexuality: “They can do WHAT?!”

“Mommy, can mans wear make-up?” This is what my six-year-old son asked me a few weeks ago. I looked into his little face and he looked so confused and in that moment I wondered how best to reply. His question was prompted by my watching one of…

I’m a big girl….

Or am I? When I think about the word “big” I envisage a huge, shapeless mass…and honey, I am NOT shapeless. To the contrary, I am full of curves. But, yes, I am big-er than other women. It hasn’t always been that way…

Let’s Talk about Sex and Marriage pt. 1

*this post contains some very adult language.* SEX! Why don’t more married people have sex?! When I was about 25, I was at a Pampered Chef party and the conversation inevitably changed from which ladles were the most effective to much more palatable conversation. The woman there were…

Finally Decorating the Office

I went on a spontaneous trip to Marshall’s today…My home office is in desperate need of decorating. The most important thing at the moment is finding a new chair. As much time as I spend sitting there, my butt needs to be comfortable. I found a…

What’s Your Purpose?

Someone close to me told me, “I feel like your life has no purpose.” As you can imagine, I was surprised and angry. How can someone else tell me that my life has no purpose? Why does their idea of a purposeful life have to align with my…